Among UK pet owners who kept their animals, 15% say they have regretted owning a pet at
some time (RSPCA/YouGov 2024, n=6,053). Among US residents who surrendered a pet within
the past three years, 86% wished they had not had to (HASS Community Values Survey
2023/2024, n=2,500). The 71-percentage-point gap is one of the largest bilateral asymmetries
in this dataset and points strongly toward the inaction side: people who gave up their pets
regret it far more often than people who kept them.
The psychology here tracks the exit-cost structure of pet ownership. Relinquishment carries
substantial disenfranchised grief — the loss is often treated as less legitimate than human
bereavement, which suppresses social support and amplifies regret. Many surrenders are
coerced rather than chosen: RSPCA data identifies housing restrictions, cost, and
circumstances changing as the dominant drivers. A person who surrendered a dog because a
landlord prohibited pets did not make a free preference reversal; the 86% “wished they
didn’t have to” rate captures this entire population, including those for whom no better
option existed. The action-side psychology runs differently: pet regret among owners is
largely front-loaded with information that was available before acquisition — cost, time
demands, behavioural issues — and coexists with high attachment (HABRI 2022: 92% of
pet owners globally say there is no reason they would ever be convinced to give up their
pet). Regret and continued attachment are not mutually exclusive.
Three caveats shape how this entry should be read. First, the two surveys are not
methodologically symmetric: RSPCA asks UK owners about lifetime regret, HASS asks US
surrenderers about regret within a 3-year window from a community services survey. Both
biases (RSPCA under-reporting due to reputational framing, HASS over-reporting due to
self-selection of engaged community respondents) work in the same direction — compressing
the gap — yet the gap remains 71 points. Second, species heterogeneity matters: dog
ownership generates the highest regret profile given time, space, and cost demands; cat
and small-animal regret rates are lower and rarely appear in survey literature. Third,
the 2022–2024 period likely represents a cost-inflation high-water mark for ownership
regret; the RSPCA’s 2022 wave recorded approximately 10%, suggesting the current 15%
may normalise downward as pandemic-era acquisition cohorts and cost pressures ease.
Sources: action
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[1]RSPCA / YouGov — Animal Kindness Index 2024
Reference source
15% of UK pet owners (1 in 7) say they have regretted owning a pet at some time, up from 13% (1 in 8) in 2023
Excerpt
“"Financial concerns are fuelling an increase in the proportion of pet owners who regret having a pet — with one in seven (15%) regretting having a pet in 2024, compared to one in eight (13%) in 2023. This is equivalent to 2.6 million pets whose owners have experienced regret."
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Source data from
2024-06-01
Accessed
2026-05-01
Calculation
RSPCA Animal Kindness Index 2024, conducted by YouGov online among 6,053 UK adults between 27 March and 10 April 2024. Results weighted to be representative of the UK adult population aged 16+. The 15% figure is a direct retrospective regret measure ("have you ever regretted owning a pet"). Used directly as the action-side rate.
[2]RSPCA / YouGov — Animal Kindness Index 2023 — Pet Owners
Reference source
13% of UK pet owners (1 in 8) say they have regretted owning a pet; reasons include behavioural issues (28%), cost (25%), circumstances changing (18%), and insufficient time (15%)
Excerpt
“"One in eight pet owners (13%) say they have regretted owning a pet at some time. The cost of looking after pets has risen faster than inflation, which is around 8%, with significant price increases across pet care products. 81% of respondents say it's more expensive to look after their pets, compared to 68% in 2022."
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Source data from
2023-06-01
Accessed
2026-05-01
Calculation
RSPCA Animal Kindness Index 2023, also conducted by YouGov. The 13% figure from 2023 corroborates the 2024 figure (15%) and establishes a rising trend driven by cost inflation. Used as corroborating source; primary action-side rate is from the 2024 wave.
Sources: inaction
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[1]Human Animal Support Services (HASS) — HASS Community Values Survey Results
Reference source
86% of people who had relinquished a pet in the past three years wished they did not have to
Excerpt
“"86% of people who had relinquished a pet in the past three years wished they did not have to."
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Source data from
2024-02-01
Accessed
2026-05-02
Calculation
HASS Community Values Survey, n=2,500 respondents across nine US communities, conducted by professional survey firm. The 86% figure measures constrained regret: respondents who had actually surrendered a pet and wished the circumstances had not required it. This captures both pure preference reversal ("I regret giving up my pet") and coerced regret ("circumstances forced my hand but I wish they hadn't"). The distinction matters: a meaningful share of surrenders result from housing loss, financial crisis, or health emergencies — situations where the relinquisher knew at the time there was no better option yet still experienced regret. Used directly as the inaction-side rate. The wording "wished they did not have to" is the most direct available proxy for post-relinquishment regret; no large study asks the cleaner question "do you regret giving up your pet?" as a standalone item.
Caveats
The action and inaction measures are drawn from different countries (UK and US), different instruments (RSPCA/YouGov vs. HASS community survey), and different question framings. The action-side question ("have you ever regretted owning a pet?") is a lifetime retrospective; the inaction-side question ("wished they did not have to" relinquish) has a 3-year recall window and conflates genuine preference reversal with coerced regret — many surrenders are forced by housing loss, financial hardship, or illness, so the 86% includes people who felt the surrender was necessary but still painful, not only those who believe it was the wrong decision. The true rate of voluntary-circumstance regret is likely lower than 86% but remains substantially higher than 15%. The 71-percentage-point gap is large enough that neither country-level noise nor question-framing differences are plausible explanations for the full asymmetry; the directional finding is robust. Self-selection is the largest confounder on the inaction side: people who surrendered a beloved pet are overrepresented in a survey about animal services; those who relinquished indifferently may underparticipate. The RSPCA commissioner note: regret is an unflattering finding for an animal welfare organisation, so under-reporting in their survey is a plausible bias direction. Species matters: dog regret is highest (time, cost, space demands); cat and small-animal regret is lower. Post-pandemic cost inflation likely inflated the 2024 regret rate; earlier waves (RSPCA 2022: ~10%) suggest the 15% may normalise downward as cost pressures ease. This entry applies to the decision to rehome an existing pet; it does not directly address the decision to acquire a pet in the first place.
