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Circumcising a son vs not circumcising

Last reviewed 2026-04-25

Evidence quality 4.5/5

Eight-dimension review score against the quality rubric . Each dimension scored 1–5.

D1 Source verification
5/5
D2 Source authority & independence
3/5
D3 Regret-rate accuracy
5/5
D4 Source comparability
5/5
D5 Gilovich pattern
5/5
D6 Prose quality
5/5
D7 Caveat completeness
5/5
D8 Sample quality
3/5
Average 4.5/5
Direct evidence
A perfectly balanced scale with two identical weights, set on a neutral background.

Action regret

Circumcising

21%

21% of parents — moderate to strong regret

US parents of circumcised boys presenting to pediatric urology clinic

retrospective, no fixed timeframe

Inaction regret

Not circumcising

21%

21% of parents — moderate to strong regret

US parents of uncircumcised boys presenting to pediatric urology clinic

retrospective, no fixed timeframe

% who regret this choice

balanced — Roughly balanced — both choices carry similar regret.

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Semantically similar decisions — same territory, different trade-offs.

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A 2024 study in the Journal of Pediatric Urology administered the validated Decision Regret Scale to parents of both circumcised and uncircumcised boys at a US outpatient urology clinic. The result was a rare null finding: 21% of parents in each group reported moderate-to- strong regret. The distributions were identical — same median (0), same mean (22), same range (0-75). Whichever choice a parent made, about one in five second-guessed it.

This symmetry is unusual in the regret literature, where most decisions show at least a modest tilt toward one side. The circumcision debate is culturally and politically charged, with strong advocacy on both sides claiming the other path leads to regret. The data suggests neither side has the stronger empirical claim. A companion study in Frontiers in Pediatrics found that even parents who went so far as to pursue circumcision revision reported regret scores comparable to everyday decisions — the procedure does not appear to generate outsized decisional distress.

The major caveat is the study population. Parents presenting at a pediatric urology clinic are not a general-population sample — they are there because something prompted a visit, which likely inflates concern and regret in both groups. The absolute 21% figure may overstate regret among all parents. More fundamentally, the DRS captures parental regret, not the preferences of the person whose body was modified. Adult men circumcised as infants may hold views that diverge from what their parents report, and that data is sparse.

Sources: action

Claim ledger

Every number below is what each source reported, with the verbatim quote we relied on and how we arrived at our figure. Click any link to verify directly.

  1. [1] Journal of Pediatric Urology / Caplan et al. — Parent decisional regret regarding neonatal circumcision in an American outpatient pediatric urology clinic
    Parent decisional regret regarding neonatal circumcision in an American outpatient pediatric urology clinic
    Statistic
    21% of parents of circumcised boys scored moderate-to-strong regret (DRS 30-100); median DRS was 0, mean was 22
    Excerpt
    “"One in five parents of both circumcised and uncircumcised boys expressed moderate to strong regret regarding their decision about neonatal circumcision in our pediatric urology clinic. Overall, 55% of both groups reported no regret (DRS = 0), 24% had low-mild regret (DRS 5-25), and 21% yielded moderate-strong regret (DRS 30-100)." ”
    Source data from
    2024-08-16
    Accessed
    2026-04-25
    Calculation
    The Decision Regret Scale (DRS) was administered to parents at a pediatric urology outpatient clinic (91 circumcised, 28 uncircumcised; 119 total). 21% scored moderate-to-strong regret in the circumcised group (n=91). We use 0.21 as regret_rate. Note: clinic population may overrepresent parents with concerns.

Sources: inaction

Claim ledger

Every number below is what each source reported, with the verbatim quote we relied on and how we arrived at our figure. Click any link to verify directly.

  1. [1] Journal of Pediatric Urology / Caplan et al. — Parent decisional regret regarding neonatal circumcision in an American outpatient pediatric urology clinic
    Parent decisional regret regarding neonatal circumcision in an American outpatient pediatric urology clinic
    Statistic
    21% of parents of uncircumcised boys also scored moderate-to-strong regret (DRS 30-100); the two groups showed identical regret distributions
    Excerpt
    “"One in five parents of both circumcised and uncircumcised boys expressed moderate to strong regret regarding their decision about neonatal circumcision. Overall decisional regret scores from both uncircumcised and circumcised parent groups were positively skewed with a median 0, mean 22, and ranged from 0 to 75." ”
    Source data from
    2024-08-16
    Accessed
    2026-04-25
    Calculation
    Same study, same instrument, same clinic population. The uncircumcised parent group (n=28) showed the identical 21% moderate-to-strong regret rate. The null finding — no difference between the two decision arms — is itself remarkable, though the small inaction-side sample limits precision.
  2. [2] Frontiers in Pediatrics / Sheth et al. — Parental Regret Following Decision to Revise Circumcision
    Parental Regret Following Decision to Revise Circumcision
    Statistic
    Parents who elected circumcision revision had DRS scores comparable to everyday decisions, suggesting regret is not elevated for circumcision decisions in general
    Excerpt
    “"Parents who elected circumcision revision had decisional regret scores comparable to non-medical everyday decisions, suggesting that circumcision-related regret falls within the normal range of parental decision-making regret." ”
    Source data from
    2022-03-14
    Accessed
    2026-04-25
    Calculation
    This study measured regret among parents who chose to revise a prior circumcision. The finding that even revision-regret is modest corroborates the main study's conclusion that circumcision decisions do not generate outsized regret in either direction.

Caveats

The study population was drawn from a pediatric urology outpatient clinic, which likely overrepresents parents who have concerns about their child's penile health — a selection bias that could inflate regret in both directions. The identical 21% figure across both groups is the finding, but the absolute level may be higher than in a general population sample. The uncircumcised group is notably small (n=28 vs 91 circumcised), so the inaction-side regret rate carries wide confidence intervals and should be interpreted with caution. The DRS measures parental regret, not the child's future preferences — adult men circumcised as infants may have different views. Cultural, religious, and regional norms heavily influence circumcision rates (58% of US newborns are circumcised vs <10% in most of Europe), which limits cross-cultural generalizability.

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