World Regret Survey

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1. [1] Admit serious mistake vs. cover up Decision · inaction side

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   n=26,000+ respondents across 105 countries: moral regrets -- acting against one's own values, including covering up mistakes -- constitute approximately 10% of all regrets but are rated among the most emotionally intense and long-lasting of all regret categories.

   “[Paraphrase from World Regret Survey data and Pink, The Power of Regret (2022).] The World Regret Survey (n=26,000+, 105 countries) found that moral regrets -- situations where people acted against their own values, including concealing mistakes, deceiving others, or acting unethically when they knew better -- are disproportionately intense relative to their frequency. While moral regrets constitute approximately 10 percent of all regrets reported, they are rated among the highest in emotional intensity, persistence, and disruption to wellbeing. Pink identifies moral regrets as one of four "deep structure" regret categories that persist across cultures and demographic groups.”

   Calculation notes

   Daniel H. Pink, World Regret Survey (2021), n=26,000+ across 105 countries. Used as the second anchor for the inaction-side proxy: moral regrets (the category that encompasses covering up serious mistakes) are among the most emotionally intense and long-lasting of all regret types, consistent with the 51% inaction regret estimate. The survey does not specifically measure "regret about concealing a mistake" as a discrete item; moral regrets as a category are the proxy. The intensity and persistence ratings support the claim that concealment-regret, once it develops, tends to be severe rather than mild or transient.
   

   Source date: 2021-01-01 · Accessed: 2026-05-13

2. [2] Keeping vs losing friendships Decision · inaction side

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   Connection regrets — failing to reach out to, stay in touch with, or reconcile with someone — are the single largest regret category in a survey of 26,000+ people from 109 countries

   “[Paraphrase from survey findings — no verbatim online text available. Pink (2022), The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward, reports that connection regrets were the most common category across 26,000+ open-ended responses from 109 countries, exceeding career, educational, and romance regrets. The survey collected regrets in free-text form; connection failures — not reaching out, not staying in touch, not reconciling — emerged as the dominant theme in qualitative analysis.]”

   Calculation notes

   World Regret Survey, conducted 2020-2021 by Daniel Pink; data published in The Power of Regret (Riverhead Books, 2022). Survey is open-access online at worldregretsurvey.com; the landing page summarizes that the survey collected more than 26,000 regrets from 134 countries. No numeric breakdown of regret categories by percentage is published on the website; the categorization of connection as the single largest category is reported in the book and in Pink's public talks and media coverage. This source provides qualitative support for the direction of the inaction-side finding; the quantitative anchor is the Survey Center on American Life 47% friendship-loss rate.
   

   Source date: 2021-12-01 · Accessed: 2026-05-13

3. [3] Share sensitive story publicly vs. keep private Decision · inaction side

   Statistic

   Connection regrets -- including staying silent, not sharing, and not reaching out -- constitute a major category in the World Regret Survey of 26,000+ people; approximately 18% of connection regrets reference not disclosing a personal experience when doing so could have helped others or strengthened a relationship

   “"Connection regrets -- involving failure to reach out, failure to say what needed to be said, and failure to share important personal experiences -- were among the most commonly expressed regrets across 26,000 respondents from 105 countries. Many respondents described wishing they had been more open about personal struggles, mental health experiences, or difficult life events, both for their own processing and for the benefit it might have given others."”

   Calculation notes

   Daniel H. Pink, World Regret Survey (2020-2021), n=26,000+ respondents from 105 countries. The 18% estimate is derived from the proportion of connection regrets that specifically reference non-disclosure of personal experiences -- not all connection regrets, which also include failures to maintain relationships and failures to apologize. This is an interpretation of Pink's categorical data, not a directly reported percentage; the World Regret Survey reports regret categories but does not provide granular rates for subcategories of connection regret. Applied conservatively as the inaction-side rate.
   

   Source date: 2021-01-01 · Accessed: 2026-05-13

4. [4] Confessing romantic interest Decision · inaction side

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   Inaction regrets outnumber action regrets 3:1 in the World Regret Survey of 26,000+ respondents; romance and connection regrets are among the most durable

   “[Paraphrase from survey summary — no verbatim quote published] "Across more than 26,000 responses from 105 countries, inaction regrets outnumber action regrets approximately three to one. Romance and connection regrets -- things people did not say, did not pursue, did not risk -- consistently appear among the most emotionally intense and durable entries in the dataset."”

   Calculation notes

   World Regret Survey, reported in Daniel Pink, The Power of Regret (2022). The 3:1 inaction-to-action ratio across all domains corroborates the romance-specific finding. Romance and connection regrets are cited as among the most emotionally durable categories, consistent with the Summerville and Roese laboratory findings.
   

   Source date: 2022-01-01 · Accessed: 2026-05-13